![]() ![]() Murphy's Law is very real and if you're pressed for time, everything that could go wrong will go wrong. Planning ahead is the best way to use your time wisely. Things will start happening the way they should. Trust yourself and follow your designated path. Know that if you put in the work, results will come. This is the fastest way to crash and burn. When you are unrealistic with your wants and needs, you will lose patience because things aren't happening fast enough, or you're not where you thought you'd be. ![]() Always measure your expectations accordingly, meaning don't get your hopes up too soon and don't lose hope too soon, either. The best way to keep a healthy life balance is to always be honest with yourself and others. When we lose touch with the world, we lose our minds - that's a given. Bring your individuality with you everywhere you go, and no matter what new things you get into, it's never a bad idea to combine a little bit of the old into the new. If you think that cliques and bullies are only a high school issue, think again! Just because everyone is doing something does not mean that it is right for you. The best way to maintain a balance between the old and the new is to be open-minded and to stay grounded. Being new to Los Angeles, I know what it's like to try and make friends and try new things while staying true to yourself and your values. ![]() The social pressures of friends and society can be overwhelming, especially if you're still trying to find yourself and where you fit in a new job or city. When choosing between conflicting events, always choose the one that will matter a year from now, or try to find a productive way to do both. There will always be a big party to go to or a friend's birthday you can’t skip, but sometimes, meeting a work deadline or pulling an extra shift is far more productive and important for achieving your long-term goals.Ī year from now, you won't remember how much fun you had at that party - you may not even remember the week after - but making an impression at work may get you a promotion. Here are five ways to achieve that: First Thing's First: Prioritize While there is a time and a place for everything, there is also a big need for balance in your life. We are constantly juggling our social and work lives - sometimes, even a love life - but we're multitasking so much that we often forget to be fair to ourselves. You reap what you sow and if all you're planting is party seeds, you will have nothing to enjoy but hangovers and blurry nights. A lack of balance in your life could be a huge cause for failure. Today, I got to thinking about balance and how important it is in order to survive. There is absolutely nothing wrong with having a good time, but every once in a while, we need to evaluate whether the good time is getting in the way of a good life. When you can't keep a good balance between work and play, changes must be made. It's all fun and games until you are 35 and have nothing to show for yourself because your life is one big party. Being the life of the party is an "honor" that has a very real expiration date. Many people I meet are so caught up with their social responsibilities and trying to be part of a crowd that they neglect other aspects of their lives. ![]() Sure, we'd all rather be playing than working, but that’s not plausible for a successful life. They say girls just want to have fun, but in reality, everyone wants to have fun. ![]()
0 Comments
Leave a Reply. |